It hit me like a brick wall the other day when spending some quality time with a very close friend of mine. As a woman you are aiming most of your life to be – presentable.
Your life is not owned by you, it’s owned by everyone else but you. And your focus is being presentable for them. As a young girl, most of us are here to please and serve, it comes natural to be the caregivers. Even in role play. while young boys are continuing playing the same games as they always do the girl are there caring for others.
Moving on starting school, boys are still giving more time in the classroom acting out and being listen to, as they are demanding their space from the get go! Girls are still just being presentable.
Moving up to university girls are getting the better grades, studying harder with minimal fuss, still very few collages professors are well paid women.
Landing their first job, they are faced with lesser pay for equal job usually preforming better then the men. Woman are still less listened to, and need to lean and demand their place, are still being questioned and judged 👉🏻 are they being presentable enough?
Woman preforms sports on as high level as the men but can rarely make a living of it, nor does their team draw as big crowds.
As they become mothers they become less attractive in the job market. As they become older and they become less presentable, and their value drops even more.
So all you girls out there all you warriors, young athletes, older women 👉🏻 stop being presentable.
We women 